The Flamboyant Introvert

Apparently now the topic is guns here. I guess I'll bite too.
Inspired by a Facebook theory on how race relates to the public reaction to gun violence, I did a little (internet) research, and a little thinking, and I think I've got something...
First a bunch of background:...

Comments on my initial post on the topic are below, in purple italics.  My response to the response follows each paragraph.
IMHO, your very best and essential point is: if Louis CK asked permission, why isn't that just unfortunate/awkward instead of nonconsenual? I think this is a great point, and I think that your argument that assuming women can't say no to these situations...

Part 1 here:  In Defense of Louie CK
In part 2, I try to pre-preemptively address some arguments that people may have against my first points (based on a few real-life conversations).  They are all connected, but each paragraph is a somewhat different point, which may not be directly relevant...

First off, note that some details of what was written in the original report released by the NYT has been changed in subsequent media accounts.
I am not sure who changed the story, when, or why, but I am taking the initial story as the most likely to be accurate one. It was the NYT reporter that actually talked to the accusers....