Onyinye Chukwu's Blog

We know that in relationships and when faced with problems men tend to think with the logical left side of the brain, and women, with
the much more emotionalright side of the brain.
I'm in a relationship fix right now. My head argues that he's matured enough age wise, he's got a good job, he's Nice -albeit a little boring and predictable - he's obviously ready to settle down and he's totally obsessed with me. The thing is, my heart...

I came across this write up and it rang so true, but almost impossible. In theory, we sprout sayings and relationship "do's" and "don'ts"
and how it's weak willed people who can't follow these simple rules.
In reality, it's hard as hell to practice. Sometimes the heart wants what the heart wants, and telling yourself not to want him or her, is tantamount to telling the Earth not to rotate or revolve. Believe me, I've been there....

Wow, where to start from. A lot has happened since the last time I posted anything here. Since then I have survived a life threatening event , my house almost burned down, near misses of accidents, financial loss, met new and wonderful friends , lost...

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I once swore to forever forgo the memories of my inglorious days, but devastation has drenched my heart with tears of pain and these tears have become enough provocation for me to renounce my outlandish oaths.
Today, I remember the stalker who plucked my tenderness, who replaced my scent with mess and travailing odour....